Man-Archy – Connections
During the Covid crisis and lockdown in particular, our lives continue, but in what capacity. There are people I know and love who have been hugely challenged by a variety of issues and circumstances which have led to life changing events this year.
What can be done about it? Not a great deal, by looking back, but looking ahead what difference can I make for them, and for myself? There have been times where I have struggled to process all the information and contain it. It can overwhelm you and make you question everything, but how can we get through this?
One way I find is by connecting with other people. I know from experience that if the issue involves both partners in my relationship, then I default to the strong and protective one, but then how do I express my feelings?
Fortunately, I have identified this as a potential issue and therefore have a larger network who I can talk to, who will listen? Where do we turn to if we don’t have that network?
Making yourself available for others is a small step, but can be hugely significant for those struggling currently. Is there anyone today who you could connect with and ask them how they are, hoping they give you a truthful answer, it might be the call they really need.